Breakups suck; There is no way to sugarcoat it. But, unfortunately, none of us are immune to it.  Even celebrities like Bill and Melinda Gates, JLo and A-Rod, Kim and Kanye have all gone their separate ways in hopes of a happier life.

Although everyone goes through a breakup at one point or another, it doesn’t take away from the initial sting and the myriad of feelings flowing in. You may feel sad, angry, betrayed, jealous, bitter, and lonely, but that all starts to heal with time. Navigating your world after a breakup, no matter how long, can be a winding journey, but eventually, you reach the coast, and the calming waves bring you peace and bring you back to yourself.

So now that you’ve spent some time healing; however that may be (going out with friends, cooking, binge-watching Netflix, picking up a new hobby, traveling, etc.), you may feel like it’s time to get back out there and start dating again; but how do you know where to start?

As dating experts here at Perfect 12, let us give you some advice on how to dive back in and put your best foot forward to find your perfect match.

Love Yourself First

Being happy and confident with yourself is the first step to getting back out there. If your cup isn’t full, you won’t be able to genuinely enjoy your time with the other person. So make sure that you’ve gotten yourself to a place of peace and happiness and so that you have the ability to open up and allow yourself to love again. If you tell yourself – I cannot handle another breakup, then you aren’t ready. Don’t push yourself and allow yourself to heal and find your spark again!

Finish the Book

Your past is in the past. Like a book, you’ve read it, and now it’s time to move on and find a new bestseller. Don’t focus on past mistakes and faux pas that you may have made in your last relationship; you’ve lived, learned, and now know better. Go into your new relationship with an open mind and do not compare it to your last. It might be tricky at first because you saw great qualities in your ex, but would you compare a modern age fiction book to the likes of Shakespeare? No; So focus on new potential and move forward.

Try Something New

If you’ve made it past those two steps, congratulations, you’re now ready to start dating again! If you’re looking for a new way to connect with people, stop wasting time trying to meet Mr. or Ms. Right Now on those dating apps and instead let’s get real! Forget lengthy online dating profiles and impersonal computer algorithms. Experience a personalized, hands on matchmaking service. In our case, the nation’s leading matchmaking service for CEOs, celebrities, athletes, executives, and other sophisticated professionals who are ready for a long term relationship. Our elite matchmaking service provides high caliber matches, one-on-one date coaching and access to our VIP concierge service for one-of-a-kind dates. We pride ourselves in the ability to connect people to their perfect 10, and in our case their perfect 12. You deserve love and happiness in your life; contact us today to find your perfect 12!

Dating no longer looks like romantic movies filled with writing love letters, throwing rocks at windows, and courting in the Renaissance Era. Instead, dating now consists of swiping left or right on dating apps, sliding into DM’s, or getting set up on blind dates by your friends.

Whether you like the old way of dating or prefer the new method, what are your chances of finding your perfect match?

How many times have you been on dates with people who end up being completely different from their “online profile”?

Let’s be honest; it probably happens a lot. You meet online, you connect and chat only to be disappointed and feeling like you’ve wasted a ton of time.

“There’s plenty of fish in the sea,” but why spend so much time fishing in the sea when there is a matchmaking service that creates a custom “pond” filled with potential perfect matches?

That’s how Perfect 12 works.

What is Perfect 12?

Perfect 12 is an exclusive matchmaking service agency that provides successful men and women a chance at finding “the one.” With a 90% success rate, we’d say that your chances are very high.

Starting in 2010, owner Simona Fusco knew she wanted to create something different than traditional matchmaking services. Matchmaking has been around for centuries, but she knew that she needed to think outside the box in order to be a successful matchmaker in the 21st century.

Not Your Typical Matchmaking Agency

As successful men and women, you don’t have the time to scroll endlessly through dating apps or other celebrity matchmaking services that let the users “match” themselves.

You need something more.

When you join Perfect 12, you get exclusive access to their premier matchmaking agency in the US and Europe.

To gain access to Perfect 12, you must first be thoroughly vetted and interviewed. This helps Perfect 12  guarantee that our clients are able and willing to take the next step in life. They are successful, financially independent, and ready for a monogamous, long-lasting relationship.

We also ensure your privacy to the highest degree. We know that dating and your personal information is a delicate process, and we don’t want anything getting into the wrong hands. We want you to feel protected and comfortable with us. Every relationship begins with trust, which is no different when you start your relationship with us at Perfect 12. Many of our clients consider us more than a “matchmaking” agency. We are considered confidants, allies, and friends.

Whether you are a doctor, lawyer, model, actor, tech mogul, royalty, or investor, when you work with us, we can help you find “your person” by creating Custom Tailored Matches.

What is a Custom Tailored Match?

A Custom Tailored Match is our secret to success! Instead of just matching you with a random list of men or women, we personally get to know all of our clients so that we can present you with a carefully chosen match that complements your needs and desires in your significant other.

During your consultation with us, we will discuss everything, from location to goals and ideals, that you’re looking for in a perfect match. We will also use our expertise to help open up your mind to possibilities and dive deeper into what you’re genuinely looking for.

Because of our unique service, we have a 90% success rate, most of our clients pause their memberships after only a few months because they want to exclusively pursue a relationship with one of our Perfect 12’s.

Don’t Forget About Our Concierge Service!

So now that you’ve found your Perfect 12, where are you going to take her on your first date? Let us help you out with that! From VIP access to the hottest restaurants, nightclubs and events to private wine tastings and red carpet events, we can set you up for a night to remember. Our concierge service can help you create a fun, intimate, or exciting experience just for 2! The sky’s the limit with the perks you’ll receive by being one of our clients.

Ready to Find Your Perfect 12?

With our headquarters in Beverly Hills, California, we are the premier and exclusive matchmaking agency in the United States and Europe.

Apply here or connect with us today to become a client.

Don’t just settle for a Perfect 10 – Go the extra mile to meet your Perfect 12. Someone whose beauty is enhanced by substance, depth and sophistication.

Ask Simi for Perfect 12:

Dating in your 20s and 30s:

 

Ahh, the carefree days of our 20s and 30s…you think that the world revolves around you and that time is on your side forever and ever and ever. When it comes to dating, there will always be someone else. No rush! Someone better, someone more worthy of you is right around the corner. Plenty of fish in the sea. You never think to put much effort into dating. Meeting the opposite sex comes easy and while you consciously or subconsciously overlook many things about your significant other due to lack of experience or care, you also do not have the patience for much. It is all about having fun, finding yourself and whoever is along for the ride is just dandy. Then as you mature (yes some of us do!), you realize that the most important things in life are a decent human being that understands the basic principles of values and morals such as integrity, loyalty, honesty, kindness and compassion. You also realize that those very things are the most important traits in yourself and suddenly, things become clearer. You no longer put up with people that bring negativity and drama to your life. You no longer accept people that do not value and respect you. Simply put, you learn that this life of yours is about making the best of your limited time here on this beautiful planet. Your priorities change and you start surrounding yourself with people that genuinely care about you and lift you up. People that make life better and more enjoyable. People whom you can be yourself without being judged. Just by being your real and authentic self. Imagine that!

 

Dating in your 40s, 50s and beyond:

You have accumulated plenty of experience to know the difference between dating a boy vs a mature man, a girl vs a mature woman. Now the question is: where to find this rumored rarely seen species in the wild of La La Land? Certainly, we have been through the treacherous valleys of online dating and if you are anything like me, you do not have the time nor the patience to scour through countless profiles. It is a full-time job! Did you know that statistically 57% of people online lie on their dating profiles?!! And that is just the ones that admit to lying! Remember liars lie so why would the rest admit to lying online…. They lie just about everything from their name to marital status to appearance, not to mention predators that steal your data from your device and those who are just looking for money and sex. It is a plethora of things some of which are too dreadful to mention. Shocking? …NOT. I have experienced this myself in my online dating days which is one of many reasons I started Perfect 12. Online profiles are misleading and embellished with many posting pictures of 20 years ago or heavily retouching their pictures with the many apps available these days. Not to mention the agonizing back and forth messaging to verify that the person is who they say they are, only to find them either going MIA because they are distracted swiping and on to the next BBD online or worse yet, you meet, and they are nothing like they have represented themselves to be. What a waste of time and energy better spent towards something more productive right? Now what? Try again? Have you ever heard of Albert Einstein’s quote “The definition of insanity”? It is doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result. So, let us break the cycle of insanity and try a little something called “thinking outside the box”. Something that shows you results. In the case of my service, that result is a 90% success rate. In comes Perfect 12 your personal matchmaker. Your personal guide through the jungle of the dating world. Or as most refer to me, their personal confidant, friend and wing-woman.

At Perfect 12 we take the guess work out of dating. Our members consist of carefully curated women and men whose most precious assets are their time and reputation. This is the very reason that you will NEVER find our members on dating sites or at a bar/nightclub. Members gain access to an internationally, hand vetted network of trailblazer, game changers and disruptors. Believe in me, none of our members have trouble meeting the opposite sex. But what they are looking for is quality over quantity. That is why they search out the very best to meet the best. The most exclusive, world renown, award-winning matchmaking service in the country. Perfect 12.

To find out if you qualify, you must meet the following criteria:

• You must be nominated by one of our current members. Have your friend brag to us about what we are missing without you!

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• You must apply and go through a qualification process. Yes, we do take this process very seriously and you will appreciate it once you are approved as a member. Unlike other services, at Perfect 12 we do not just accept anybody no matter their wealth or stature. You must be that diamond amongst pebbles because that is why you are here. To meet that special person that is not hanging around on apps and bars. We are looking for real beauty inside and out, one that understands morals and values and is serious about finding true love. You must meet the specific requirements and criteria of our current members. In short, our current members must approve of you and recognize that you would be an asset to our community.

Easy enough, right? Then go on and head over to Women Apply or Men Apply and let your amazing self shine! Dazzle us and we will evaluate your initial application for membership. You can expect to hear from us within 2 business days of your application. *

*Information you provide will only be shared with our internal membership selection committee. Please note that meeting our criteria does not guarantee acceptance.

Once approved you’ll be able to experience the many exclusive benefits reserved only to Perfect 12 members, one of which is giving yourself the chance to find the love of your life!

 

Finding the perfect woman in your life does not need to be so hard. Good friends and relatives unfortunately tend to focus more on acquaintances and don’t really understand who you’re looking for or even the right match…how can they?  However, all of these difficulties can be averted by selecting a matchmaking.  Matchmakers will learn more about you and your values and help look for someone who can compliment your life.

It is easier to attend and participate in events when someone you like and feel comfortable with accompanies you, either as your guest or the recipient of an invitation. Are there guaranteed ways to find sophisticated, beautiful, sexy, intelligent women that adds to the joy of living?

#5 – Find Happiness at the Golf Course

There are several reasons one member of a foursome is unable to participate in a scheduled game at the course. Be the player that wants to team up with the odd woman out in a group. You have the opportunity to make a quick assessment before you offer to join. The game is an excellent way to find out about someone with at least one of your common interests. Lunch or a drink at the clubhouse afterwards provides a comfortable setting to learn more about each member of today’s group. Supplementing this activity with the help of selective, upscale matchmaker will provide many opportunities to meet successful men in the setting in which they are most comfortable – the golfing greens!

#4 – Look for Love at Seminars

Nearly everyone attending a seminar is seeking self-growth, knowledge, and inspiration. A single professional woman looking for a soulmate may be part of your breakout session. Attendees at expensive, productive seminars and conferences typically have their financial and business life organized. It is an upscale venture in which to meet someone with much in common.

#3 – Attend a Friend’s Company Party

How many invitations from business associates do you set aside? Company parties are not all family picnics at the local water park. Some are dressy evening affairs that nearly always have single women executives attending without a date. An introduction gives the opportunity to dance, dine, and discuss as you get acquainted with one another. If you have a date provided by a selective matchmaker, this company party may be a great opportunity to get the feedback from your friends and colleagues.

#2 – Upscale Fundraisers and Charitable Boards

Philanthropy takes many forms, including fundraisers to promote contributions to charitable causes and board membership to verify contributions are used wisely. You might meet the right woman at one of these events and continue your good works as a team.

#1 – Market with an Expert Team of Matchmakers

You approach business with an established, well-researched marketing plan. Why do any less for a partnership that you expect (and want) to last a lifetime? A matchmaker is a time-honored way of bringing two suited individuals into a long-lasting relationship. Perfect12 is among the top professional matchmaking services, whose goal to find your soulmate is based on your personality, attractions, and lifestyle compared to successful ‘perfect’ women across the world.

The internet portrays single women desperately searching a variety of men. These are the websites you want to avoid. You are looking for a lifelong partner, not a clinging vine. The tendency to “leap first, ask questions later” is avoided because our matchmakers are fully invested in your long-term success. A match is successful a majority of the time, so as long as each person’s objectives and requirements are honest and realistic.

Most men prefer others not knowing they are looking for someone special in their life. Avoid being set up on dates by well-meaning friends and relatives by hiring a professional team to find several women meeting your criteria. It is not a sign that you need help to find a woman; it’s an efficient way to find the right woman without spending time with the wrong ones.

Personal interviews with our relationship psychologists allow you to identify your likes, dislikes, and expectations. If any part is unrealistic, our team will review the items with you. If your search for the perfect woman is still in place, Perfect12 may help you find happiness.